I don’t know who said that, but they suck. Even though there are hints of truth in it – if you’re realistic. I’m not a realistic person. I live in a sparkly bubble of illusion, and I’m always surprised when it bursts. You’d think I’d learn. No. Never. I like my bubble. I like to think the best in people and always enter things whole-heartedly.
Haven’t worked out what ended yet? The man ended it. I didn’t even get the chance to blog about our fifth date (because I jet-setted off to Melbourne for a shopping excursion with the bestie – LOVED IT!), which was another awesome date!
It was completely unexpected from my end, and from anyone’s I’ve told about him. It seemed to be going so perfect! It did knock me sideways. The fact that he was a coward and did it through text just made me angry. It appears he’s not over his ex-wife. I’m not going to dissect what happened and why it ended. It’s a waste of time. Lets just say that I did not reply to his text in which he metaphorically punched me in the ovaries and proceeded to tell me we should stay in touch.
I usually don’t swear on the internet… but WHAT THE FUCK?? That is a solid punch to the ovaries… and I hate the “stay in touch” thing. Wine night very soon methinks!
What a jerk! He can’t help his feelings, I guess but his delivery of the dumping is so wrong and mean
And stay in touch?!!! Why? So he can then realise he’s not in love with his ex (or she isn’t into him) and then he can come back to you like you’re the consolation prize?! Oh I don’t think so, buddy! I’m very protective of my Bronnie!
You are deserving of being someone’s first choice. You are so fun, adventurous, down to earth, attractive and you have a great sense of humour – you don’t need him!
Hugs xo
They’re called balls. He should get some.
(Glad your shopping trip was fun!).
Awww lots of hugs!!!! Vent all you need but he doesn’t even deserve that. Hugs + love <3
What a horrible way to dump someone – agree with everything written above, take care, hugs and look to the future (if you’re still looking at coming over here for your midwifery course, there are some lovely guys in England!)
Piper, you must be one of those silent readers! Haha – yes, I’m still planning to head to England for Midwifery, and yes – gorgeous Englishmen please
Wow! Thanks for all your lovely comments, ladies. It means a lot
kisses for you all!
Blecch
That fully sucks. Everyone has their baggage I guess but still, not cool. Work out what you want before you go around dating people!
Onwards and upwards I say
Exactly!! I had asked him if he was over her, he said yes. Gr.
I know I already expressed my thoughts on twitter with a rather large “FUCKTARD” message, but I wanted to reiterate it again here. What. A. Douche. I get his reasons, but all it would have taken is a face to face conversation, or even (at worst) a phone call to discuss it. A text is just cowardly – which makes me think that he really truly liked you, and knew that he wouldnt be able to say it to your face.
The good thing to know is that not ALL guys are like that, and there is a better one out there for you! He is just waiting to be found by the gorgeous, sexy, hilarious, vivacious and wonderful Bron. Go get him girlie! xxx
Aw, Leah – you’re such a babe! My boss thinks he really truly liked me too… sucky!
I’m sure there will be another in no time… my dry spells don’t normally last too long… haha!
x
He sent you a txt??? I thought that stuff only happened on TV – ouch! *hug*
First of all, I’m so sorry
Some guys are just assholes, he obviously doesn’t deserve you. Second of all, everything really does happen for a reason, I hope you remember that and try to continue smiling as you move on! xo
And guys want US not to be so moody, emotional, hard to predict.
At least you hadn’t invested too much time (& emotion) with him.
From what I’ve read, you deserve a guy that will blow you away, sweep you off your feet, (not go back to his ex) and decree that the two of you should live happily ever after!
Aww wow, thank you
I have my fingers crossed I meet someone like that! Could be awhile… hehe