She’s pretty dormant right now. Sure I had fun and flings overseas, but back here in NZ there are no potentials for moi. To be honest I am not worried, I had some good (but not great…) news regarding Mr Christchurch (aka my 10/10) and Mr Navy has definitely nailed his coffin.
So first up the negative. I received a few messages via facebook from Mr Navy while I was away; just asking about my trip, if I was having fun, if I had run out of money… that sort of thing. Kind of flirty, but nothing to lead on that he missed me or was going to do anything when I returned. Which is how it turned out. I’ve been back a week tomorrow and haven’t heard from him, no phone call, no text, no facebook, nada! So that’s easy, right? Now removed from facebook, removed from my thoughts (except to write this entry).
If he does contact me at all for any reason I have been advised by two males friends and my male boss to ignore and not respond or reply. Done. I can do that. It’s time to move on.
In more positive news, I saw Mr Christchurch’s brother on Tuesday night at pub quiz, where he informed me that his brother is now single and does in fact really like me and would like to date me (his words…). So what’s stopping him you ask? The fact that he lives at the opposite end of the country to me. I do understand that. Long distance has never proved to be the easiest form of a relationship and really there’s no rush. Hopefully he comes up for a few visits and then moves here as soon as he possibly can. But hey, it’s always nice to know the feelings are mutual!
So right now I’m over the love life issues. I’m not looking and don’t have any potentials lined up. If Mr Christchurch moved up it would be a whole different story, of course. It has made me realise though; if I can find someone who is my 10/10 and returns the feelings I have, I am definitely not settling for anything less. We shall see what 2010 holds for the life of the girl dubbed the New Zealand Ms Bridget Jones.