So five days in, and two dates later I’m wondering if this online dating thing is really for me. I think I had better luck with how I was meeting men before. I nearly canceled my account last night, but was advised by many that I need to give it a bit more of a chance. Seriously? Let’s just say it’s on thin ice right now…
A very sweet guy. We met up for coffee. Lovely to chat to, and a good looking man. But something just didn’t click from my end. I’d love to keep him as a friend, but I’m not quite sure how I approach that topic. He hasn’t asked me on a second date, so it should be OK. Although he did text me an hour after we met, to which I was advised by my boss to send a short message so as not to lead him on. He text me again later on with a friendly message, so I responded nicely with no lead ons… Haven’t heard from him today so that’s a positive for moving in the friend direction!
This one scared me slightly; I asked him how many girls he was talking to on the site and he responded with “oh, just you. I usually stalk one girl at a time until I can convince them to meet up.” Yes I was tempted to run at this point. But I gave him the benefit of the doubt, maybe he was trying to be funny? Needless to say I had nothing in common with this guy, and no sexual attraction on my end. He text me this morning and I haven’t replied. I feel like a right biartch. But as people have said to me “have you ever had a guy not respond?” and the answer is yes… so I guess I’m doing the same thing now.
So, no success so far but people are saying be patient! I’m not always good with patience, haha.